No, it’s not with your boyfriend, with your friends, not even with your mom. The relationship I’m talking about is with yourself. Because if it is woeful, none of the above can even exist peacefully.
The people who say “I’m sorry, it wasn’t you, it was me” are the most sorted ones.
These people are going to make a lot better progress and a more healthy relationship with whoever they next engage with, than anyone who blame others for not fulfilling their expectations .Ever wondered why the person you loved the most, wanted to spend your entire life with, was somehow separated or the relationship was broken without even trying? I accept the simple fact that there are people who can hurt or broke you. Yes, people who completely destroy you with not even a single mistake of your own exists. But let’s talk about the considerable majority. A relationship demands co operation. And it’ll not come with you focusing on everyone else but you.
How to improve that relationship with yourself? Just begin by correcting your faults:
1. Realize. Look for every shortcoming in you that’s hurting others and eventually hurting you.
2. Now don’t spend hours in self criticism. Accept it. Accept that you’re a human. You’re fallible. You have the power to change it.
3. Change it. Now that you know, change it. Don’t regret everything that shortcoming has caused. It’s not going to bring you any peace, my dear. Search for ways it can be eliminated or replaced by some desired quality.
Make peace with you and yourself, and not just relationships, your mental health, your vision, your thoughts will eventually change for the better.
Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”
Lastly, let’s not loathe someone for having a boorish behavior. Everyone here is fighting their own battle. There’s a reason why everyone behave in a manner. And guys, it’s not always bad upbringing ,maybe he/she have been hurt in ways you can’t even imagine?
Love everyone, and begin with yourself.